MY LADY BREAK TIME IS OVER SO SIT UP

Some women are so fake to the extent that you begin to feel like you are playing a role in a fairy tale with them.So you also play along just to let the sleeping dogs lie.

Most women of today have become unpredictable because of untruthful behaviours and lifestyles we portray. Some man have had such bitter experiences with women that they find it difficult to diffrenciate between a good and a bad woman.
They have classified all women into one category and are treating them same because of past experiences.

Someone will ask what about the other side of men?
Well, my answer is that we women are responsible for the behaviours of our man. If all women will get the fact that we are each others keeper and not fight each other? The men won't get the chance to misbehave.

For example, if all the so called side chicks will learn to refuse the married men who approches them to help them cheat on their wives and work  with their hands. No man will ever get any woman to take advantage off or no woman will cry because another woman is breaking her home.

I have personally had experinces where i just had to walk away because i wouldn't want to sleep with someone my father's and big brother's age. They were not moved one bit thinking i was going to come back because it has become a norm that every woman must go through. When i was stepping out i heard him saying i have been meeting your type who the hell do you think you are.

Most of us don't care about our dignity any longer. We only moved by material gains and will do anything just to acquire them.

Whiles some women are killing themsleves with hard work to survive,others lives too are centred on what is in vogue. The new fashion trend, celebrity update, New dance etc and are walking about aimlessly trying to reap where they didnt sow to cater for our fake lifestyles.

If only we will get the correct mentality and walk in purpose,our men wont get the chance to take advantage of us.

When a woman is successful and up and going, She automatically gains the respect of men.because men are easily moved by what they see and not what they hear unlike women.

You are not working as a woman, but what you have on from the crown of your head to the souls of your feet can set you up in business than to even talk of that expensive phone you are using for calls and whatapp only rendering it useless in your hands because of its functions that are dormant.

I want us to take a good look at our lives this very minute as women and see if we are yielding a positive fruit with our lives or we are just wasting our previous time walking about aimlessly.

If you are a woman working your heart out to cater for yourself and dependant i salute you paaa. But if you a woman walking about with a huge bill for no good reason doing nothing apart from looking for the next man to dupe.
Abeg raise your hand and say FATHER LORD JESUS I SERIOUSLY NEED DELIVERANCE FROM THIS KIND OF LIFESTYLE. PLEASE HELP ME COME OUT OF IT AND MAKE ME A BETTER PERSON IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME.

GOD bless you for taking such step. Get into a bible believing church and ask the pastor for help or inbox me and i will be glad to help.

I love you but JESUS loves you more!!!

BE EQUIPPED BEFORE YOU ARE PICKED

I beleive so much in the saying that "behind every successful man there is a woman " Yes it's true. Do you know why?

Women are born naturally with the gift of assisting. We are automatically helpers from above divinely. That is why when a woman misses her purpose in her marriage or relationship of any kind there is a massive chaos.
When a woman misses her purpose in marriage and relationships; it leaves all her surroundings uncovered and exposed to all forms of attacks spiritually and physically.

When all you care about and the only reason you wanted to be married and want to marry is just to be married because you want to be married then am sorry to tell you that your marriage already failed before you got into it or are getting into.
A man is a house with his woman as the pillars holding the four corners of the building. So if you loose your purpose for which your husband the builder  stands on, we all know what will happen to the building. It will definately collapse because no building can stand on it own without a pillar.

As a woman, you supposed to be your husband's greatest cheerleader, his best friend, advicer, peaceful accommodating roommate, protector, his best follower and above all a pastor watching over his soul as Christ demands of us with every soul.

And so, before you get into marriage the best planning and the correct mentality you need to sustain the marriage is key. If your only planning is for or was for only your wedding day then am sorry to tell you to get back to the drawing board all over again to plan your lifetime all over again with the mentally of a helper and not just a roommate to someone whom you are aimlessly living with.

Every calibre of a man is a head in his own jurisdiction. And so you dont need to be married to a president before you realise that you have a great task ahead of you and expect your man to work on you to fit into his calibre. Every woman's greatest assignment before marriage is to work on yourslef mentally,emotionally, physically and spiritually to be able to lead your husband on from behind. 

Men automatically are bread winners even though the responsibility is equally shared among both sex lately, the fact still remains that women runs the home. A home is where there is peace, harmony and protective field that a man could run to anytime and not firing squad where it is avoided by even the strongest.
Dont just live in a house but run a home because a house is a place where people just have a place to sleep and run off when the morning comes. Unlike a home where there's peace and harmony.

To be able to run a home, you must have the tenacity to be able to do so. That is why you need to plan your future with basic fundamentals by preparing yourslef pysically,  emotionally,mentally and spiritually.
JESUS said it clearly that what you purpose in your heart is what you will get. So what is your purpose for your marriage that you are working or worked towards or you just waiting to get into it and start singing this chorus that "what will be will be"

You are to be the refill container for your man as a woman in any case. You should be so equipped to be able to impart the life of your man physically,  mentally, emotionally and even academically that whenever he comes back home empty he will be going back the next morning fully loaded again to go face whatever task that lies ahead of him.

It's about time we don't only focus on our bridal shower, wedding gowns and the number of bridesmaids etc but also plan our future with the basic fundenmental knowledge so we can be able to adjust when the times comes to be joined together. Or go back to the drawing board if we already in it to get the fundenmental knowledge we lacked at the beginning to amend and deal with the loop hopes that has been created by our ignorance.

Hear me my lady, any woman who marries a man just to take advantage of him is not smart.
A woman whose criteria for choosing a man is only based on wealth,good looking, money , fame, name (family name..surname) etc is a joker and not matured enough for marriage. For marriage is about you taking over somebody's son whom has been catered for years to become that great man you desiring.

So get busy to equip yourslef to take up the Barton from your husband's mother when the time is due.
May the HOLYSPIRIT enables us to amend all wrongs in our relationships and marriages in JESUS name Amen.

I love you but JESUS loves you more